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Dr. Derek B. Miller's avatar

There is a Jewish value of sensitivity and respect for others' feelings, even extending to inanimate objects (knowing full well they are inanimate). The notion comes from a Midrashic tradition that emphasizes the importance of "avoiding unnecessary embarrassment," thus teaching an ethical lesson about respecting the dignity of others. By practicing it — by being polite at all times, as it were — we become better people, not delusional.

Yes, I do thank it. Why? Because conversational rhythm — using natural language — creates a momentum and energy behind the inquiry. So rather than a stilted approach that tries to re-order my way of interacting to better accommodate the inanimate device I'm engaging, I use my own "best practice" to get the results I want. Likewise, it was built on "natural language" so there's a logical affinity to my practice and its means of operating which — at least deductively — suggests I'll get better results. Certainly not worse, anyway.

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Tim Smithers's avatar

Derek,

You say

"[Yes. I say please. No, I don’t want to talk about it.]"

But this _is_ you talking about it.

I think you _should_ talk about it, to a therapist, but not

one called ELIZA!

Do you say "please" to all the automated systems you use? To

the automatic doors you walk up to, which then open? To the

card reader you wave your bus card at as you get on the bus,

which then beeps? To the washing machine you load your

clothes into, which then washes them, and makes a noise when

its done? To the automatic kettle that switches off as it

boils the water, so you can make your tea? ... Do you then

say "thank you" too? Do you say thank you to ChatGPT? You

should!

If you do these things, I'd see your behaviour as quaint, a

little strange, but harmless. If you only say "please" to

ChatGPT, then I'd take this as you equating ChatGPT to all the

people you also say "please" to, and this is deeply insulting,

and worrying. Once you have people and machines, such as

ChatGPT, categorised the same, we are well down the road of

dehumanisation. Don't we already have enough dehumanisation

in the world today? Haven't we had too much dehumanisation

down the ages?

Or, perhaps you only say "please" to ChatGPT, and not to

people? ... It was you who started talking about this.

-- Tim

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